Wining is a thought and a wish... a feeling and an ego. but it doesn't happen always.
we give in to people or to circumstances. we passify ourselves with reasons to cover our defeat. we give ourselves some fancy
sugar coated words and tell ourselves that ... i would ahve done if only ' abc' had helped or 'xyz' could've happened or 'pqr'
didn't happen. but are these the truths...
No...
They are excuses from us to us... wierd?
What we must do is to stop giving these
reasons.... Because when we do that we kinda bury that defeat deep in the ground and forget it. we almost get ready for another
one....
this defeat buried inside eats away our strength like a hidden disease and weakens our system, our system
of the mind!
The weak system prepares us for more defeats and our mind gets accustomed for more 'let-downs'...
So what should
we do... its a part of life...
True.... it is.
If success is required and wished for... defeat is accepted and learnt from.
Accepting defeat doesn't mean
falling down, never to get up... it means looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing yourself in the eye... talking to yourself...
asking
where did i go wrong.
am i willing to
work towards ensuring this doesnt happen again.
am i enthusiastic
to get up and heal this wound with the edicineof success of just bury this wound of defeat with the mud of weakness. the weakness
is not only physical or mental... it is he weakness to look at oneself and speak to your own self.
ask your self...
have i earned by bread for the day... have i justifie my day at work today.
have i done my best in what i did...
we may lie ... and say yes. but till wen?
could i have done
this better..., what do i need to do this better...
whom do i fear... my peers... because when i fall down while i am learning they will
laugh... but do i realize that they are ones who will envy me... even follow me when i succeed in my mission.
But do i actually need
to prove to them...? na...
I need to prove to myself... that i am doing all i can and growing in every step
i take.
and soon u will realize that there will be time when u are planning the next step and will foresee the possibilities
of defeat and hence prepare the PLAN B to ensure dfeat doesnt hit u and even if it does ... there is a learning...
But thats the truth...
